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Part 1 · You are not choosing a product, you are choosing a way of life
On Contextual Curation · No.1 of 3
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You are not choosing a product
You are choosing a way of life
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Same coffee machine. One person treasures it for years. Another lets it gather dust in two months. What changed? Not the machine.
The same coffee machine. One person uses it for three years and still raves about it. Another buys it and lets it gather dust within two months. Same model. Same price. Even the same reason for buying it: “A friend recommended it.” “The reviews were great.”
What made the difference? 🤔
The person using it.
We have grown accustomed to judging things by a single set of standards: specs, aesthetics, brand, ratings. But these standards come with a hidden assumption — that everyone using them is the same kind of person, living the same kind of life.
Reality, of course, is nothing like that.
Someone who makes breakfast for the whole family every morning, and someone who just wants a quick decent cup to survive the morning meeting, do not need the same machine. Even if both are called “a good coffee machine.”
“Good” has never been an objective property. It is what happens when a particular person, in a particular context, finds something that fits.
So that question so many people agonize over — “Is this thing worth it?” — is not even the right question.
The right question is: Does this fit the life you are actually living?
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The two questions look alike, but they pull you in entirely different directions.
The first sends you hunting for answers. You scroll through reviews, compare specs, and the more you look, the more tangled it gets — until you either buy the expensive one “for peace of mind,” or pick something at random “just to be done with it.”
The second sends you inward. What is your morning rhythm? How much counter space do you have? How many times a week do you actually use it? Are you someone who enjoys the craft, or do you want one button and done?
Get clear on those, and the choice almost makes itself. ✨
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This is not just about coffee machines.
The same logic applies to everything. A piece of clothing. An app. A financial product. A set of tools. Nothing on the market is purely “great” or purely “garbage.” Everything works well in some contexts, and poorly in others.
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Something to sit with
Products that get called a waste of money are usually bought by people who were never in their target context to begin with. Products with polarizing reviews are usually loved by one kind of person and dismissed by another — and those two kinds are simply not the same.
I sometimes think that before we buy anything, there is really one thing we need to do first: get clear on who we are and what kind of life we are actually living.
🎯Not “I deserve the best” — that is just a slogan. But “How do I use this every day? What do I care about? What do I not care about?”
Once that is clear, choosing becomes remarkably light.
Because you no longer need to find the best one. You only need to find the right one.
And the right one — more often than not — is both cheaper than the best, and far more satisfying.
